Monday, August 16, 2010

How to deal with husband's child with ex-wife?

i have been married for the last three months. i wanted 2 start life afresh and did not want my husband to keep in touch with his ex and child which he promised to do before marriage.But now it is not so.he calls his child often and it hurts me.i feel he has broken his promise to me..i know i am wrong but i just dnt know how to come to terms with it..i just cant accept another person in my family life...How to deal with husband's child with ex-wife?
F@%$ you troll!How to deal with husband's child with ex-wife?
So, you wanted to start out your new marriage pretending that your husband does not have a child? How old are you?





You made him promise something that no woman should ever even dream about - it was clearly wrong of you to think this would be in the best interest of anyone. Your husband had a family BEFORE YOU. The child is in your family - when you married him - you married into his family as well as your family. It's one BIG family. Have you never loved a sister or brothers kid? (niece nephew cousin???) Have you never understood that children need love?





Your marriage won't last very long if you continue believing you are justified in your husband NOT contacting his child because HE PROMISED. You should run to your husband and apologize for being childish, selfish and inconsiderate. You should RUN to the store and buy that child a toy for when the two of you get to see him. You should welcome that child into your life like you did your husband. If you can't do that, you have no business being married to him.





Where is your mother by the way? Did she never teach you anything about love?
If you %26amp; your husband had a child %26amp; the 2 of you got divorced would you want him not to have anything to do with your child?I don't know if you have any children but it is a love unlike anything else. You can't expect him not to have a relationship with his child.You have got to grow up %26amp; get over yourself this is very selfish.
You need counseling. As a matter of fact you and your husband need counseling. I'm trying to figure out what type of man marries a woman that would put this kind of stipulation on him.





I don't know the whole story so I'll try not to judge you too much but you really need to search your soul and find out why you would even think of denying a child a father? How would you feel if you had a child with him and he ended up with a new wife and his new wife didn't want him to have anything to do with you and your child? It wouldn't be right then and it's not right now.





SEEK HELP NOW...you have a serious emotional problem. It's obviously mostly yours because your husband is doing what's right.
I know how you feel, I was engaged to this guy with kids and unfortunately his exes gave me a really hard time which made his kids not like me. And, as much as I love HIM I did not like his children. So I left him, as much as it hurts and as sad as I am, I cannot be that person that comes inbetween him and his kids. So, if you cannot support him then you should leave him.
Your husband has every right to contact his child. What if the roles were reversed? There's alot more to this story than whats written, but the bottom line is your husband has a child and he should stay in touch with him/her. Your husband must really love you to make a promise not to have contact in the first place. Good luck.
Ugh! You expect him to abandon his child - who existed before you two were an item - just because you are acting selfish and insecure?!





Grow up and realize that the sun does not shine out of your rear end. Or leave the guy so that you can be the center of somebody else's universe, and go back to your mom.
You had the BALLS to ask a man to give up his child and you are pissed because he didn't do this? I cannot even believe you would ask him to do this. How about if YOU had a child and he asked YOU to give up the child? Would YOU do it?





Get a divorce, please.
You are a very childish piece of work! He should have never EVER married you if you are trying to keep him from seeing his child! You really need to grow up! His child is part of him, you are NOTHING and obviously replaceable, since he has already been divorced once!
If you knew that he had a child before you married him. then you need to respect him and let him spend time with his child. You can't expect him to make a promise like that to you. It's not fair to him or his child.
Yes, you are wrong. Maybe if you met his child you wouldn't feel so threatened. It would be hard for me to love anyone who was trying to keep me from my child so for the sake of your marriage you might consider marriage counseling.
What kind of person are you, trying to make your husband cut off contact from his child!!!!??????





That's really despicable! How dare you make your husband 'promise' you that he wont have contact with his child?





Accept it.........otherwise you will lose your husband!!
I swear, you sound like the most selfish person I've ever read about. You should not be in this marriage. You knew he had a child. How dare you come along and expect his child to be fatherless. You disgust me.
...is this a joke? because you can't be for real.
qutiely , he/she is also a animal born on this earth
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