Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to deal with a husband that walks out ?

My husband walked out on me and my two kids and 5 days later we talked and he came back home. He left because of all the arguing and said he couldn't take it anymore he said he is tired and wants to have time for himself. I'm confident he's only returned home in body and not spirit and he has no where else to go, but I love him so.How to deal with a husband that walks out ?
STOP NAGGING HIMHow to deal with a husband that walks out ?
A real man doesn't walk out on his children, no excuse what so ever. He needs to grow up and if he and you have a problem, then thats between you and him. That doesn't give him any reason to walk out on his kids, they didn't do anything wrong. I would seek counseling and if that doesn't work then stop arguing and act like adults would. Stop acting like little children, there is something wrong in the marriage, if things keep getting bad then separate, but try to make it work.
I am confident that you are either driving him nuts or he is cheating, or both. Men do not walk out on there families for no reason. you guys need to go to counseling , that would be your best bet. He said he needs time to himself ? How was he acting before he left. Different? Was he mean and uncaring, give more info please.
Well first of all, men typically don't like nagging or bickering so they will say to hell with it in a minute. You guys need to work on effective communication which does not include arguing but debating, it does not include 'my way or no way' thinking but compromising.
You Two need counseling and psych evaluations for behavioral and emotional disorders to get to the bottom of the reasons for arguingg.
Counseling will help partly. But what you really need to do is sit down and re-evaluate where your marriage is and if its worth moving forward together or not. Best of luck.
is it enough for you for him to just be there? i think that you should try talking to him after he has a lil time to hisself and see what he wants
hmmmmm...... you 2 need to seriously talk about what exactly is bothering him. Nobody likes to argue but it sounds like maybe someone isnt apologizing enough.. or at all? I think you need to get down to the core of the problem with him.....
love does not hold a marriage together


if he feels like he is not getting a fair shake in the marriage


he will set up his options and the next time he leaves


he will not come back
so seek counseling, what more is there to do ? Get your marriage back on track and take care the road you choose out there !








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Jordan
you say you love him so why don't you look into counseling and see how things go

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