Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you deal with your husband of 22 years getting addicted to porn?

I have supported my husband through his mental illness and how it's affected our family. He had a recent hospitalization due to not taking his meds and this new addiction to porn. After several discussions and weeks of figuring out finances as he wasn't working I now find out he's been collecting his porn again. What do I do? My self-esteem is at an all-time low!How do you deal with your husband of 22 years getting addicted to porn?
maybe his porn is his way of relaxing, I think it's harmless, why not watch it with him?How do you deal with your husband of 22 years getting addicted to porn?
There's nothing wrong with porn but if it's affecting his life and work, then something's really wrong. Why is he not working? Is it because he can't find a job or is it because of the porn? If it's the first one, then probably it's easier to solve. He has really to have a job to get his mind off the addiction or anything worthwhile to get him occupied...but if it's the porn that keeps him out of work, then it seems like it's more serious and requires another professional intervention.





But you also have the option of getting out of the situation.
Theres nothing wrong with watching porn.
Pornography is a sickness. You don't deal with it. What you do is pray about it. Only God can remove that kind of sickness. It's a really tough situation but I would advise that you stick with him and show him that you disagree with this and make him uncomfortable about it.





Constantly pray for him because he will need to be broken from the bondage that he is in.
it is somthing that will take a long time to recover from try xxxchurch or a physciratrist but if he doesnt wanna change then ask yourself is it worth it
You're kidding right?!!!!
Only he can stop his addiction. If he is not willing to, then he is choosing it over you and perhaps its time to get out. Always remember that you matter most. If you are unhappy then you need to change that.
i can imagine how you feel, but don't let it affect you, it's just that men are lustful beings, and porn is a way to satisfy it, now i admit some men are addicted to porn which is not good. Maybe you can get him some sex addition therapy?? could he be transferring addictions from substance abuse to porn? i don't know how deep his porn addiction is, but if he's not hurting anyone, if he's being responsible (i.e. like taking th emoney needed for rent, etc. and buying porn) then i'd just turn the other cheek, i know i'm rambling on but i wish u the best.
you can install netdog porn filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com , it block porn quitely in the background when your husband's on the computer.

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