Pregnant and angry. How to deal with husbands friend?

I HATE this man with the fiery passion of a thousands suns. I would gladly load him in a cannon and blast him into orbit. I try not to argue or ***** about him. But now that Im pregnant and hormonal Im having more trouble holding my tongue. Does anyone else have to deal with a friend that you can't stand? How do you do it? Pregnant and angry. How to deal with husbands friend?
Ugh! I know exactly what you mean! I finally just got rid of my boyfriend's friend who was living with us/mooching off of us for everything. I absolutely hated having him in my home but I kept my mouth shut because he was important to my boyfriend. After a while though, I had to say something. Things were getting out of hand. He had been with us a month and STILL didn't even have the smallest incling of a job! Plus, he was a smoker, messy, rude, etc...And it seemed like whenever my boyfriend hung out with him, (which was all the time) he was being influenced by him to be just as messy, rude, and irresponsible. My advice would be to just explain how you feel to your husband. Obviously, I don't know the situation but maybe you two can come to some sort of understanding/compromise. His main concern should be your well-being and comfort at this point. If you are stressed out and upset, it's not good for you or baby. Best of luck and congratulations! I feel your pain!!!Pregnant and angry. How to deal with husbands friend?
my husband only has one friend that i prefer to not have visit, and he rarely does- usually only during special occassions etc. At the moment though, i know how you are feeling, I find it difficult to not snap at people, and i have to catch myself when i realize that i am going around with a scowl on my face, and feeling grumpy.





It's ok to say to someone 'i'm hormonal atm, and am finding it very difficult to be civil to you.' that way you can let them know how you are feeling without doing the snapping thing.



stop answering your phone when he calls and let your husband deal with it when he's home.


Let him know that you do not like the excessive calling in a single day and why he's causing you stress right now. Ask your husband to speak to this ';friend'; about keeping distance from you especially during this time. YOU are the first priority and the baby, not some annoying friend who apparently has no life if he can call someone 12 times in a single day.






Your husband should understand that this guy really upsets you and should keep him away from you especially since you're pregnant you don't need this stress.