How to deal with my husband and his mom, without going CRAZY?

My husband has this weird relationship with his mom....He loves her and hates her. She tried to ruin our wedding and anything I plan she tries to make it about her...She has really done some evil stuff to me the last 2 years..Now I don't even answer her calls..I share my feelings with my husband, and he understands. But then 2 weeks pass and he wants me to be her best friend. NOT!! This lady is nuts. Any advice?How to deal with my husband and his mom, without going CRAZY?



the best you can do is just talk to her how you feel.





if that doesn't work ... all you have to do is just avoid her.





i have some problem with my partner's mom as well.


and she has two personality, doesn't have basic manner, selfish,


she thinks shes always right no matter what.





hate it!!!





How to deal with my husband and his mom, without going CRAZY?
Maybe she is jealous of you. Most ppl at one time or another have a love hate relationship with one of their parents. If you could write her letter might be able to get your feelings out without her controlling the situation and over talking on you. Then you can tell her exactly how you feel, but be respectful, honest. Just stay away from her. Kill her with kindness if you absolutely have to be around her, will drive her mad. Good luck hon.
Talking to your husband might mean sitting him down and jamming it into his head. Tell him about everything and make him give you a response of understanding, Tell him how crazy it sounds when he expects you guys to be best friends after everything that's happened and the best thing for him to be is not to dismiss your feelings.
sit her down and let her know exactly what you think of her. what is the worst that can happen. your already married to her son so she can't break ya'll up
Idk, try to avoid her.
the three of u just need to sit down and calmly talk it out and your husband can be a mediator