Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How to deal with husband being out of town for many days at a time... at least every couple of weeks?

And i don't mean emotionally.. i mean in a more ';physical sense';





And it has to be DIY... I don't do the whole cheating thing.. thats not cool... but any ideas on how to keep myself satisfied?How to deal with husband being out of town for many days at a time... at least every couple of weeks?
Look coming from a military wife who goes months without her hubby, you use your imagination. Get a toy use your fingers. When you are starting to get..........well hot, you use what you got to work with and ALWAYS remember you are married. Your human to possibly be tempted, your choice how you deal with it. Vows were spoken and how would you feel if it was your husband with this issue and not you ?How to deal with husband being out of town for many days at a time... at least every couple of weeks?
If you're a stay-at-home wife, you could always accompany him. If you're not, then you could invest some spare time into a hobby or whatnot. How about organizing a girls time and inviting some of your girlfriends over for an evening of fun?! I wouldn't like being separated from my husband much, but if it is a necessity, it's something you'll have to learn to live with.





And for the physical, there's always good, old masturbation. Vibrators work, too, but some women become desensitized from using them for prolonged periods.
Get a fancy vibrator and keep your body at home.
buy a vibrator or a massaging shower head those are my favorites ... they are good for me and my husband leaves for 6-7 months at a time for deployments...!!
well do really fun thin gs whenyour husbands in town and go with him from time totime
Toys are the best. You can order online or at your local ';goodies'; store. Unfortunately, toys usually only work for so long. I hope he realizes this and starts staying home more. Also, what does he do in a more ';physical sense'; when he is away? Make sure you talk with him openly about your needs and feelings. Make sure he is comfortable with your toys, some men are not. But I am sorry to say that I forsee trouble ahead if he doesn't find a way to stay home a little more. Long distant romances are not as hard as long distant marriages to keep together.

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