How does a husband deal with a wife that is going through a midlife crisis and does not know it?

Everyone around her including her own family can see that she is destroying her life and the life of her 2 children. She blames everything on the husband but she can not tell him what it is that he has done to cause her to want out of the marriage. She has disconnected herself from her children and asked for a divorce. She does seem to think that by asking for a divorce and having the husband served with papers is painful and destructive to him. It is as if she is a totally different person that he married. The body is the same but the spirit living in the body is someone that he does not know. No history of marital problems no drugs no abuse nothing at all just one day the wife up and asked for a divorce and said tha she no longer wants to be married. What can be done besides let her go, sell the house and move on, knowing that one day she will hurt very bad for what she has done but she can not see it.How does a husband deal with a wife that is going through a midlife crisis and does not know it?
When someone says they feel disconnected from their loved ones, it is usually a sign of depression. She needs to have a complete physical before she makes any major changes in her life. People don't ';up and ask for a divorce.'; Most likely, she has been considering changing her life, but did not share it with anyone. Medication and behavior therapy may make a major difference in her life and her loved ones.How does a husband deal with a wife that is going through a midlife crisis and does not know it?
WOW, her head spins around, and green vile sprews from her mouth, I know it mite be a good time to eat at the diner, and not both her!!!!
Im going through the exact same thing you just have to be patient and understanding ,please go see a councilior and find one you both like they will say things that she doesnt want to here that you have tried saying but coming from an independant third party they will hit home harder the kids are the ones you need to worry about they need to be with the stable and grounded person about now, my wife thinks she is 20 again wants to party, be by herself and with her girlfriend all the time,it is hard but u just have to be there give them their space and hope let me tell you though that her running away will never solve anything


Good luck
first you have to ask your self, is their another man? second she could have a chemical in balance,bring her to the doctor.or a mental disorder.get her check out, she may not want ,but try talking to her along with your and her family. also try counseling
Once someone fell out of love...


YOu cannot fix them.





It's their business, let them fix themselve.


Even if she don't want the marriage anymore...





I'm sure she'll still love her 2 kids the same as always...
How do you, or anyone else know that she will ';one day hurt very bad for what she has done?';





Do not think you know it all.





Just be his friend and be there to listen to him. That is what he needs.





Let yourself off the hook. You cannot ';fix'; them.





Good luck.