Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do I leave my deceptive husband?

Here's the deal: husband called an escort service while on work trip (while I was pregnant), he contacted a men-only ';spa'; for a ';massage'; four days before our wedding, husband considered contacting someone's post on Craig's List who was looking for a ';sugar daddy,'; and I've seen text messages from a friend of his who was trying to set him up with a girl he met at a bar on a work trip.





He denies ever cheating on me or being with anyone else. He says he didn't follow through with any of it. He says he doesn't know what he was thinking. (Don't we all know what he was thinking?!)





We are newlyweds, have been together for 5 years and have an infant together. One would think everything in our marriage is perfect. Great sex, party together, travel together, etc.





Maybe he freaked out about having a baby, maybe he is the kind of guy who can't be with one woman...





Whatever the reason, my child and I deserve better. He won't tell the truth. I can't trust him.





I am stay-at-home mom and share all of his accounts.





How do I leave and ensure the end result is the best for myself and my child?How do I leave my deceptive husband?
Get a good lawyer so you can take him for all he hasHow do I leave my deceptive husband?
Have you decided for sure to leave? If you have exhausted all avenues and don't trust him anymore..then leaving would be best. The rest of your relationship seems to be fine. There does seem to be something not right though. Tell him you're thinking of leaving because you don't trust him and he won't tell you the truth, see what response you get. He may open up and tell you things. Just remember, there might things you won't want to hear...are you ready for that For the most part, your gut instincts are usually right. If you feel somethings not right..you're probably right. Hope this helps...
Contact a lawyer - preferably a female who has be scorned by a man herself. Im glad you are at least smart enough to leave him - most women would just stay married and be treated like dirt their whole life! Propz to you!
Wait a minute. You've been with this guy for five years and never saw anything in him that would indicate that he might roam on you? Wow, must've not had your eyes open too wide, huh...?!!!
I would get a good lawyer. However, being a stay at home mom and sharing his accounts will be tough. You should definitely get child support, and a certain amount of any savings you have together. The problem is that you are newlyweds. Usually, alimony is set up depending upon the length of your marriage. However, a good lawyer will be able to help you get the best outcome. Hopefully, you will be able to get enough support to manage. You may need to get a job or go back to school to be able to support yourself as a single mom. But, believe me, it is worth it. Your child will grow up knowing that his/her mom had some backbone and was tough. If you have supportive family or friends, now would be the time to call on them. He ex also cheated on me when I was pregnant for our son. I think there is something about responsibility that some men just can't handle. At least you have a beautiful child and a good head on your shoulders. Don't think you can't do it on your own, because you can. Best of luck.
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