How to deal with husbands nasty ex wife(maturely)?

My new husband has joint custody with his exwife of their 3 kids. Between sports events and school functions we have to deal with her 2-3 times a week. His exwife told my inlaws once ';IF I can't have him no one will'; and 7 yrs later shes till single and bitter. She ok to him but injoys little diggs to me. So how should i deal with a exwife who hates me for the only reason I have what she wants?How to deal with husbands nasty ex wife(maturely)?
The best thing you can do is be polite and don't talk to her more than you have to. Don't let her digs get to you. Let yourself feel a little sorry for her, because as long as she's bitter, she will probably be alone. Better yet, include her in your prayers, wishes or intentions. That can only help.How to deal with husbands nasty ex wife(maturely)?
smile politely and be really nice to her
Why have you asked this question four times in the last five minutes?





Obsess much?





Eeesh - Sounds like you might have the issue with her.
If u luv him truly, you have to show her how strong you are by, simply dealing with it. I mean it's been seven years and she still isnt showing any signs of slowing down? Realistically I would have stabbed her a long time ago but what you'll have to do is simply ignore her the best you can and just live your lives....PRAYER WORKS I CAN TELL U THAT!
Not much you can do honey. The best way to personally deal with it is to continuously tell yourself that she's the one that goes home alone at night. You have your hand in her cookie jar and regardless of how she acts towards you, you hold the power. You have what she wants, so why let her control you? Be happy with what you've got and show the whole damn world you are proud of it. Be sweet to her, they hate that! I did that to my man's ex and she just stopped talking to us all together!
DECK HER IN THE JAW!!
IGNORE HER!





and just remember your hubby is with you because your the one he loves.





- don't let her get to you ;]
Be the bigger person and be as civil as possible towards her. She is going to be bitter no matter what so best not to provoke her...that way she has no ammunition to use against you.
dont worry about it...you have your love and yea she is just jealous and she knows she messed up by letting him go and whatever happened..and talk to your husband and tell him how you feel about it..k?


my fiancee's ex girl friend called him and asked him to marry her when we are still together. and she just wants to get kids out of him and dump him..and take as much of child support she can.. but she is jealous, cuz she messed up and cheated on him way to many times...but ya.. good luck
Blow it off as much as possible, you know your the better person because you are the';wife'; now,appearently she couldnt do something right and you are,if you act like it dont bother you,and you love those kids, the more your husband will love you and who knows, maybe she will grow to be civil as well.But dont be a door mat! throw a few diggs when nescessary, in a classy manner. -without the presence of kids of course. Good luck to you girl! I hope you and your man have a great life and without the negative ex all up in your business!
Be polite to her.





You can't control how she behaves. You can only control how you behave. How do you want to behave?
You CHOSE to marry a man who had an ex wife. She's going to be a part of the picture until she dies. If it bothered you in the beginning you should have not married him. If it just now started bothering you the maybe you should have opened your eyes wider BEFORE you got married and looked at the entire picutre. ';hates me for the only reason I have what she wants?'; or could she be rubbing your nose into the fact that right now SHE is the woman who has birthed your husband's offspring and maybe THAT is what is bothering YOU...